May 02, 2005

Parenting 2

This post by Dunx, along with various familial occasions over the weekend (Ian's parents were in town, visiting -- inter alia but, let's face it, primarily -- Ilan), prompted me to think about parenting again. The result of that thinking isn't exactly an Earth-shattering revelation, but I offer it nevertheless:

The job of parents is not to protect their children from the world -- though that may be a necessary adjunct, especially early on -- but to prepare them for it. Which, since the world is full of pain, may very well involve letting them get hurt from time to time. Even, sometimes, when you could intervene and prevent it.

Profound, eh?

Anyway. My own parents are still the best ever (so nyaah!), but I'm sure you all (by which I mean Dunx & Jen, but also some others I'm not going to name at the moment -- and, heck, anyone else to whom it might be relevant) will scale dizzy heights too.

Be good.
Posted by matt at May 2, 2005 11:26 PM

Comments

Matt:

I reread the earlier post. I don't think you should consider your decision to not parent final.

Not least because you seem like a decent person, but more because I suspect your high opinion of your own parents is accurate. Which means you know more about what good parents do than a large percentage of the populace. Please consider passing that on. You have much time to finalize the decision; think how many grandparents raise children.

Just my too forward opinion...

Patrick in NYC

Posted by: patrick in nyc at May 3, 2005 02:47 PM

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